These quotes are about personal responsibility. Not about your responsibility to others. Sorry about the baby icon and the incorrect conoctations that it brings. The quotes are solely about being responsible to yourself.
I feel that this is something that we do too often. Whether it is our significant others, friends or family. It's really not their job. It's our job. They are not mind readers. They can't hear our inner voice or deep desires. It doesn't matter how much we say to them, we are the only ones that can truly understand our own mind and goals.
If you're not willing to do the work to become clear about what you want, you will be too easily swayed by the desires of others. If they know what they want they will be more forceful and passionate. You need to develop those attributes in yourself to truly have control of what you do.
I hadn't really thought about responsibility as fun until I read this quote. But after thinking about it for a while, it is. It's fun to feel in control of your life and to figure out how to get around obstacles to achieve what you really want for your life.
Analysis paralysis. I've been there. When you're not crystal clear on what you want, every decision is wrong. Well, they might be wrong. You just don't know so you have no confidence in the direction that your actions are brining you. Without that confidence you can't work with passion and purpose.
This is possibly the most succinct and important quote about personal responsibility. Of course there are unforseen circumstances and tragedies in life. But for most of us, if you do take responsbility and ownership of your own life, you can write the ending. And more importantly, the pages before that.
I think this sums up what responsibility is really all about. Power. Personal power to do things differently. To be strategic in your actions, not just reactive to what happens. Drifting is easy. Sailing is not.
This is another nice way of thinking about responsibility, which I had not really considered. It is an active kindness for yourself but probably more for others. If you are consciously responsible for what you do, you'll treat the people around you better. Primarily because you don't have the sense that they are the cause of your current or future situation. Those things are your problem.
I would say that most people do neither. They battle the current circumstances without knowing what they really want to change about it. How can you know without being clear on what your goals are?
You certainly have the power at that point. But that is just the beginning. Taking personal responsibility is not an event. It's a journey. You need to accept that responsbility every day. In all circumstances. Without doing that you don't have the motivation to act.
I am definitely guilty of hiding behind excuses and blaming others for my situation. And not just for short periods, for years. It wasn't malicious or overt. It was worse, it was subtle and I never even verbalized it or thought about it explicitly. It was only when I started travelling full-time that I really accepted my part and responsbility and started to take control of my life.
So true. You cannot fully accept the responsibility for the good things that happen in life. It's not just about responsibility for hardships.
Regardless of what your definition of greatness may be.